Thursday, January 25, 2024
ALPEN ROSES AND EDUCATING WOMEN
Queen Marie (Ludwig's mom) - an avid hiker and club leader gave the Alpenrose with a pink bow to ladies who hiked a local mountain with her
Queen Theresia - given an unusual life of travel and science and was awarded an honorary degree at two Universities, one being Munich. The audioguide state that she was embarrassed by the attention.
Maximillian - given swan gifts
Sunday, January 21, 2024
THE SPECTRUM OF PSYCHOLOGY
According to the overview given to me by Princess Pirate’s first year college friends, there are two themes. On one end is Freud’s psychoanalysis (evaluate personality from our unconscious mind) and Skinner’s Behaviourism (Measure what we do, no matter what we say and think). On the other is Carl Rogers’ Humanism (growth potential, and self-actualization).
Thursday, January 18, 2024
AGATHA CHRISTIE’S TOP TEN PICKS
I am on a mailing list for Agatha Christie newsletter, and they supplied a list I have folded up in my copy of her autobiography. It’s the list of all her books, with short stories and plays, in order, and it’s so long that I am pretty sure I will never make my way through it. The letter started with a self-selected top ten list, and I think that’s a great place to start!
I am in the middle of Hercule Poirot’s Christmas, and I have only read one of those above (and watched the play AND the movie). I will work towards expanding to the titles above!
Friday, January 12, 2024
EIGHTEEN
Princess Pirate had a birthday today. I spent it with her and three of her closest friends, with red velvet multilayer cake with cream cheese icing, and fluorescent mini-golf at the Spheretech Putting Edge . She is not what I was like at eighteen, and she is not entirely independent, but she is an adult, and I am glad to know her.
Sunday, January 7, 2024
LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL
I am sitting on my bed in a snowstorm, reflecting on the brilliant writing of the pilot for Lessons in Chemistry on Apple TV, and how it only begins to show the arc of complexity that a singular life can have.
I am thinking how it’s hard to write without getting lost in the character, but that that writing a screen play forces dialogue and pacing of interwoven characters and plot.
I am thinking about how incredibly strong the themes spoke to me, moving me to tears when the protagonist in a more patriarchial gender disqualification role is validated in her colleague.
She walks in at the pinnacle of her tv show fame, confident, decisive, and obviously in charge.
We see her next, in her past, working as an overqualified lab assistant who also serves as 50s housewife, making coffee and cleaning up, while being excluded by her male peers and only able to work
She exists in the best version of her self within her limits until she intersects with a valuable but difficult colleague, and together they offer a better world than on their own.
There are flashbacks, though, and the show ends in her fleeing this new arrangement based on fear propagated from a previous yet to be defined, but clearly traumatic event.
In between there is a meeting of the minds, and the chemistry of a man and a woman seeing and valuing each other in a beautiful relationship that makes me crave more. There are sweet endings (how does she get out of an obligatory beauty contest at work that only objectifies the women further) and gorgeous food, and a burgeoning relationship that is bound to get beautiful and messy. The themes run deep and the chemistry is gripping. What happens next is the brainchild of talented writing, and I am hooked! How do I take my ideas, and transform them into something resembling that?
I can’t quite get the pacing and the tension, but I was sitting here on my bed, singing The First Noel from the pages of a Christmas magazine where I made notes about the epiphany cake that I just made last night. We have visitors, and Rebecca is being a good sport in a curtainless living room on a pullout couch. Meanwhile our guests came, and realized that one is highly allergic to our cat, despite us living in an apartment within our house, with the litter underfoot in the bathroom, and the living room and dining room off limits. In my head, and some of my correspondence, I carry the impending death of a woman I spend 4 hours trying to save the day before yesterday, and the myriad complicated patients that I left behind.
Surely that story could be just as interesting, if I could just write it!
IDEAS:
Write as a screen play (simplified but strong dialogue, scenes present but not written advancing plot)
State the obvious, brilliantly
Find an object to carry through (pencil)
Create a cast for my favourite characters
Don’t be limited by typical life. Write an extraordinary
Create chemistry
Think sound, visual, (smell)
Thursday, December 28, 2023
QUILTING VOCABULARY
Quilting Vocabulary
Stitch-cut-press-repeat
Block (square)
Chain stitch
Nest seams (while pressing, same direction)
Flimsy(just the quilt top)
Toppiece(quilt)
Sandwich (quilt top, batting, backing)
Charms 5x5 “
Layer cake 10x10”
Fat Quarter 18x20-22” (quarter yard is 9x44”)
- quilting yards are 41-45”, not 36”
Jelly Roll 2.5”x42”
Sashing-between blocks
See into blocks, rows, neighborhoods
Selvage(factory edges)
Square up (edges)
Long arm quilting
Hand sewn
STASH- special treasures all secretly hidden (things hoarded and forgotten)
UFOs -unfinished objects
Mount Scrapmore
WIP work in progress
WHIMM works hidden in my mind
Seam alliance
Fussy cut ( cutting out for special use
Fusing interfacing (for stretchable and slippery fabrics)
Disappearing 9 block (9 squares, cut into 4)
Log cabin block
Baste with safety pins
Stitch in the ditch
Narrow colour palate
Pay attention to value
Avoid too much contrast
Roll as you go
Quilt Sizes
- Crib: 36” x 52”
- Throw: 50” x 65”
- Twin: 70” x 90”
- Full: 85” x 108”
- Queen: 110” x 108”
- King: 110” x 108”
Saturday, December 9, 2023
MISTAKES
“It's better to explore life and make mistakes than to play it safe. Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life.”
Sophia Lauren
GIVING A MESSAGE
If the advice from “Daddy King” was good enough for Martin Luther Jr., it’s good enough for us.
“Make it plain. Make it clear. Make it real.”
From John Lewis, in Carry On
“Speak the language of the people. And make sure to understand with whom you are communicating. Who are they? What are their values? What are their needs? Your job as a communicator is to figure all that out and apply that knowledge to what you are saying.”
GOOD TROUBLE
John Lewis was the youngest member of the “Big Six”, that included Martin Luther King Jr. A. Philip Randolph, James Farmer, Whitney Young, and Roy Wilkins. He helped organized and lead the march on Washington, and spoke on that iconic day.
He was born in Troy, Alabama in 1940, and was 11 years old when he first saw how a desegregated society could look like when he went to visit relatives in Buffalo, NY.
He met MLK Jr AND Rosa Parks when he was 18, and attended workshops let by Reverend James Lawson on nonviolent protesting while a student in Nashville. That was the beginning of him following their example, and getting into “good trouble”, and becoming a Civil Rights Leader.
This led to the Nashville Student Movement which began staging sit-ins at segregated lunch counters in 1959.
He was one of the original Freedom Fighters who rode interstate buses to protest segregation in the south. He was assaulted and arrested over 2 dozen times in the years between 1961 and 19631234-.
He was one of many protestors that walked over the Pettus Bridge in Selma, Alabama in 1965. He suffered a fractured skull, and many other demonstrators were hospitalized following the assault of baton-wielding police. This was referred to as “Bloody Sunday”, and the televised images may have spurred President Johnson to submit a voting rights bill to congress.
He was elected to the Atlanta City Council in 1981, where he lived with his wife Lillian and his son John-Miles.
He was elected to the US House of Representatives from Georgia’s 5th district in 1986, and was reelected SIXTEEN times as “the conscience of Congress”, according to Atlanta Journal-Constitution.
He introduces a bill to create a national African American museum in 1988, which is blocked 15 successive years by the Republican Senate. The bill passes in 2003, and the National Museum of African American History and Culture officially opened in 2016 in DC, affectionately called Blacksonian.
He continues to sit-in, calling for immigration reform in front of the Capitol in 2013. This leads to his 45th arrest, for getting into “Good Trouble”.
He leads a sit-in on the House floor in 2016 when the vote on gun control is refused by Republicans.
He endorses Barack Obama, who in turn delivers his eulogy when he dies with pancreatic cancer in 2020, saying:
“He, as much as anyone in our history, brought this country a little bit closer to its highest ideals.”
Chronology from Carry On, his last book. It may be small, but it carries big messages, just like the Congressman did.
CBC GEM has a documentary called Good Trouble, that is worth watching.
He wrote a graphic novel trilogy called March, a memoir called Walking with the Wind, and Across that Bridge.
Read about John Lewis, and you can’t help but be inspired.
Wednesday, November 22, 2023
SATURDAY NIGHT: A HERO'S JOURNEY
Nod to Joseph Campbell's HERO OF A THOUSAND FACES and the concept of MONOMYTH
DEPARTURE
The Ordinary World - introduction of the protagonist anti-hero
The Call to Adventure - shifts
Refusing the Call to Adventure - Sick call
Meeting the Mentor - bad bosses, charming colleagues, paying it forward, role model
Crossing the Threshold - signover
INITIATION
Test, Allies, and Enemies - blue light, catching mistakes (rib fractures, MRI delays, transfer errors)
Approach to the Inmost Cave - catching up and other calculated moves
The Ordeal - psychiatrist pushback, missing bedtime, eating late, code stroke at dinner
The Reward - RN support
RETURN
The Road Back - countdown to signover
Resurrection - the golden hour of catchup
Return With the Elixir - homeward bound
Jonah
Life in Niniveh
Called by God
Shirking responsibility
In the Belly of the Whale (inmost cave)
Vomited on the beach
A second life to live
Tuesday, November 21, 2023
Monday, November 20, 2023
LEMON POPPY SEED BISCOTTI
Recommended by my friend and former roommate (one year by chance, and one year by choice!), who makes biscotti a regular breakfast decision.
It seems ironic that the website that supplies the recipe is Lord Byron’s Kitchen, as he was famously known to have a suspected eating disorder, and was probably body dysmorphic.
In any case, cookies look good, and I will try them as soon as I buy flour.
Today was a pyjama day, but tomorrow I will get dressed, and make it to the store!

LEMON POPPY SEED ALMOND BISCOTTI
INGREDIENTS
- 2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1 tablespoon poppy seeds
- 3 large eggs
- 1 cup sugar
- 1/2 cup butter, softened
- 2 whole lemons, zested and juiced
- 1 teaspoon lemon extract
- 1 cup whole blanched almonds
- 1 cup confectioner's sugar
- 3 teaspoons lemon juice
INSTRUCTIONS
- Preheat oven to 325°F. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Set aside.
- In a large mixing bowl, sift the flour, baking powder, and salt together. Next, wish in the poppy seeds.
- In a separate bowl, beat together the eggs, sugar, and butter until light and fluffy - about 5 minutes.
- Add the lemon zest and lemon extract to the butter mixture. Beat well to incorporate.
- Transfer the flour mixture to the butter mixture. Beat on low until just combined.
- Stir in the blanched almonds.
- Form the dough into a long log on the baking sheet. The dough log should measure 6" wide by 12" long. (Dust hands with flour if dough it too sticky to form into a log.)
- Bake for 30 minutes. Remove from oven and place baking sheet onto a wire cooling rack for 5 minutes.
- Gently transfer the log to a cutting board. Slice across the log to get slices of 3/4 inch thick.
- Lay the slices, cut side down on the baking sheet. Return to oven and bake for 12 minutes. Turn over each slice and bake for 12 more minutes.
- Remove from oven and allow to cool on a wire cooling rack.
- When completely cool, whisk the confectioner's sugar with 2-3 teaspoons of lemon juice until smooth.
- Drizzle over cooled biscotti or dunk the tops into the glaze. Sprinkle iced biscotti with extra poppy seeds if desired. Allow the glaze to set and harden before serving or storing.
NOTES
NUTRITION
www.lordbyronskitchen.com
PARTITION OF INDIA
The story of the partition of Indian and Pakistan was familiar to me, but it is strange that the story resonates from a Disney show about a young super hero called Ms. Marvel.
In 1947, with the British Parliament passing the Indian Indepedence Act, Lord Mountbatten announced the date, and the border was prepared at a distance by barrister Sir Radcliffe.
The previously integrated populations moved in hopes of the religious safety of a religious majority between India, and Pakistan, in the provinces of Bengal and Punjab. An estimated 1 million people died.
It reminded me of the troops leaving Afghanistan, with a vacuum that lead to violence and oppression, thanks to the longtime interference of a military power (the US instead of Britain, in this case).
DRESSUP IN YUNNAN CHINA
BEST FOOD IN THE WEST ISLAND
https://montreal.eater.com/maps/meilleurs-best-restaurants-west-island-montreal-dorval-pointe-claire
Bombay Choupati 5011 Sources Indian
Aryana 4886 Sources Afghan
Becks 4886B Sources Filipino
Vivaldi 13071 Gouin Italian
Ooh! Crabe 4820 St Jean Cajun
Bistro 1843 376 Cherrier Ile Bizard French
Toasties 4710 St Jean submarine
Tacos Don Rigo 4740 St Jean
Matjip 3343A Sources Korean
Marko Sushi 3339 D Sources sushi
Birdhouse 63 Brunswick “wingerie”
Riccardo 4071 St Jean Italian
Bisto Nolan 3669 St Jean Cajun
Mama Dumplings 3597 St Jean Chinese
Scarolies 950 St Jean Italian
Tommy Cafe Fairview Tapas, blue milk latte
Bistro Grace 18425 Antoine-Faucon
Grill Select 2756 St Charles Persian noodle soup, mirza ghassemi
Cugini’s Pizza 275 Elm
Resto Pub Bord’eaux 53 Ste Anne homestyle cooking
THREE METRICS IN ADDITION TO DIVIDEND YIELD
Don’t just rely on the dividend yield, or a low-priced stock that pays dividends can lead to what The Motley Fool calls a « dividend trap »
1. P/E Price-to-Earnings ratio - the higher the P/E ratio, the more expensive a stock is relative to its earnings
Earnings per share = profits/ number of outstanding shares
P/E =stock price/EPS
2. Free cash flow
More cash in, even if not going out in dividend, is good.
If dividends are greater than cash in, this is a red flag!
3. Debt-to-Equity ratio = total liabilities/total shareholder equity
A Low D-E R is more funded through equity, which is preferred.
A high D-E R means a company is funded more by debt, which is riskier.
BILINGUAL TREES AND SHRUBS
Un Érable - Maple
Un Tilleul - Linden
Un Pin blanc, gris, rouge - Pine
Un Sapin - Fir
L’Épinette blanche, noire - Spruce (France: Épicéa)
Un Chêne - Oak
Un Bouleau - Birch
Un Frêne - Ash
Un Hêtre - Beech
Un Cèdre (Blanc/Thuya occidental) - Cedar (White)
Un Tremble - Aspen
Un Châtaignier - Chestnut tree
Un Marronnier - Horse Chestnut
Une Caryer (ovale) - Hickory (Shagbark)
Une Pruche - Hemlock
Un Charme -Hornbeam tree
Un mimosa – Mimosa tree
Un sorbier – Mountain Ash tree (Rowan) - red berries
Un sumac – Sumac
Un lilac – Lilac tree
Un Prunus – Plum tree
Un Cerisier - Cherry tree
Un If - Yew (Château d’If, Conte de Monte Cristo) *frontyard
Un Noyer - Walnut
Le Mélèze - Larch
Un Orme - Elm
Le Sureau – Elder bush
Le Magnolia – Magnolia
L’Aubépine – Hawthorn
Le Brunellier – Blackthorn (Sloe) *backyard
Le Chèvrefeuille - Honeysuckle
Le Cornouillier – Dogwood *frontyard
SUBMISSIONS AND PUBLISHING
https://discover.submittable.com/blog/where-to-submit-your-work/
https://www.publishersmarketplace.com/
*Recommended by a repeat published author with an agent and everything!
EDITING
STAGES OF EDITING
DEFINITION
Carefully reviewing material before it is published, suggesting or making changes to correct or improve it
GOALS
Ensure the material is consistent and correct
Its content, language, style, and design suit its purpose
The text meets the needs of its audience
FOUR STAGES
1. SUBSTANTIVE/STRUCTURAL
2. STYLISTIC
3. COPY
4. PROOFREADING
SUBSTANTIVE editing = Structural editing
- focuses on content, organization and presentation of the text
-title to end
-revising, reordering, cutting, or expanding material
-defines the writer’s goals
-identifies their readers
- shapes the manuscript
-determines whether permissions are necessary for third-party material
-recasting material better presented in another form, or revising for another medium
STYLISTIC
-clarifies meaning, ensures coherence and flow, refine language
-eliminate jargon, clichés, euphemisms
- adjust the length and structure of sentences and paragraphs
- establish and maintain tone, mood, style, and level of formality
COPY
-editing to ensure correctness, accuracy, consistency, and completeness
- grammar, spelling, punctuation, usage
- continuity of mechanics and facts
-edits tables, figures, and lists
- developing a style sheet
- fact-checking
- marking levels of headings
- placement of art
- Canadianizing, converting measurements
- indexes
- listing permissions
- front matter, back matter, cover copy
- check web links
PROOFREADING
- final format review (checking a work AFTER editing)
- check adherence to design, deviations from style sheet, consistency and accuracy of cross-references, captions, web pages, hyperlinks, metadata
- copy fitting, page numbers
PROFESSIONAL EDITORIAL STANDARDS
ESTIMATING TIME (page =250 words)
Light Copy Edit 6-8 pages per hour
Stylistic/Heavy Copy Edit 3-4 pages per hour
Substantive edit 1-3 pages per hour
STYLE SHEET DEVELOPMENT
4 components:
General Style - treatment of numbers, abbreviations, punctuation, typography (use of italics and other font attributes), usage, and, of course a general word list
Characters - physical descriptions, life status, negative attributes, relative descriptions
Places - real or fiction
Timeline - plot your characters, lists details
https://opentextbc.ca/selfpublishguide/chapter/style-sheet/
https://www.thebluegarret.com/blog/what-is-a-style-sheet
https://www.friesenpress.com/blog/2021/5/6/style-sheet-template-book-writing
CREDIT: Editors Canada website
I need to learn how to be one!
WRITING COMMUNITIES
The first time I met our NaNoWriMo group downtown was after the pandemic lockdown was over. We met at a bar in my old neighbourhood in Côte-des-Neiges. I was early, and the first bartender didn’t know anything about it, but was unbothered by me sitting alone, ordering a drink, and working on my computer.
The barkeepers shifts changed and the meetup hour neared. The next one was aware of our meeting, and showed me to the back room that held a number of tables. We were a big group, so we took up 3 long tables, and made our introductions. Everything seemed normal, until we started to write.
I imagine it was startling for the server to walk into the back room of the pub, hearing only silence, thinking it was empty, only to find 15 people there, all staring at their computers or notebooks, furiously writing and thinking, with no one saying a word to their neighbour! He physically started when he arrived, and I laughed to think what a bunch of nerds we must seem. I was such a happy introvert that day. Why didn’t I do this before? Outside of a library, that is!
Just because we are working introverts doesn’t mean we don’t like being quiet with companions!
Here are a few leads for communities that have been recommended to me:
Quebec Writers’ Federation “Shut Up & Write”- uses the Pomodoro method of 25 minutes work, 5 minutes break
Sunday, November 19, 2023
SOUP AND STUFFING
GRANDMA AND GRANDPA’S HOUSE
Some of my favourite memories were formed in a rectangular bungalow in a small town. There were seasons: end of summer threshing, fall piles of leaves, frigid blowing winter, spring pussywillows. There were cousins, and long days and short nights. There were Archie comic books with advertisements promising X-ray glasses and sea monsters exchange for a stamp and a fee. There were sagging beds covered in fuzzy chenille bedspreads and mirror vanity complete with a set of hairbrush, comb and hand mirror in a musty basement There were shelves lined with rows of carefully prepared jars, filled with repeating colours like a food museum with warty green pickles and crimson beets and other delicacies I would never taste. There was a light above the work bench, illuminating an array of tools and boxes of .22 gauge ammunition, and two double barrel rifles with notched sights carefully hung on the wall.
There were fragrant turkey dinners with mountains of creamy mashed potatoes and abundant gravy. There was music, with my grandma on the piano or organ or accordian, in between being cook and clotheshorse. One time my aunt even swept me up dancing the two step around the living room floor.
For small gatherings, there were tv tray dinners and schedules of soap operas that my grandma called stories. It was a warm place. My grandma was a soft cuddly woman who smiled and squealed in delight when we came to visit. My grandpa drove us out to the farm in the back of a pickup truck, and if we were really daring we would try and sit on the edges we called “gunnels’. They drove downtown to mainstreet, literally two blocks from their house. I never even saw my grandma walk around the block, but she could drive the grain truck beside the thresher in wheat harvest like a pro, her jet black hair and glasses barely visible above the steering wheel.
Two things that I smell in my house take me back to those days. The humid basement air that doesn’t circulate in the summer, and the smell that I came home to last night.
I am a mostly vegetarian but I still eat as an omnivore when I am with Princess Pirate. I don’t want to waste any meat sacrificed by an animal, so although I am motivated to vegetarianism by my ideals, I am a practical vegetarian. I had bought a roast chicken for sandwiches this week, and the carcass needed treating. Yesterday I chopped up some rapidly deteriorating celery and carrots, added a bag of frozen leeks (Somehow I have more of those than onions these days), added some spices from my cupboard and dried from my garden, put it in a crockpot before I went to work.
When I got home, my house smelled of the wonderful aroma of my Grandma’s house.
This dog’s breakfast of now compost reminds me of those wonderful days at holidays at my grandparents’ house.
It also reminds me of the first time I made soup stock, to serve as a reminder to myself and a warning to you: I cooked it for hours and poured it into the sieve, only to realize that this was not pasta, and the water was not the waste but the product!
Too late, I had poured most of it down the sink!
ALWAYS ALWAYS put the sieve in your biggest container before you pour, and catch every last drop of the precious soup broth!