HOW WERE WE FRIENDS?

You work from home and regularly pretend that you work when you are shopping, eating, skiing. It is clear you are taking advantage of your employer and that you know this.
You don't listen.
You brag about the things I don't admire, but actively seek praise for the values they contradict. You are the very definition of a hypocrite.
Even when you can avoid controversy, and are explicitly asked to change the topic, you have to spew your racist filth.
You manipulate individuals for your own popularity, and post to facebook to document your achievements.
You delight in gossip and grow close to those who are greatest need, feeding on their weaknesses and milking their sorrow.
You never remember to return anything.
You criticize but cannot take criticism.
You think your dog and children are always right, but due to your ignorance, they are badly behaved and you are to blame for at least a part.  You value your dog over your human companion.
You overspend and say you stop, but in the same conversation decide you cannot live without buying something else.
You always express regret in drinking the next day and then plan the next party where you repeat the excess.
You feel entitled and take advantage of privileges without thought of consequences.
You love to attend bible study and think of yourself as pious, but pursue your selfishness on every occasion, to the detriment of your husband, kids and friends.
You are so incredibly judgemental, and have so many times badmouthed your former friends that I know exactly what you are saying now, as I have distanced myself from you.
I was always cautious to tell you the truth, because I knew it would never be held private.
You spend too much.
You drink too much.
You swear too much.
You are selfish.
You are bigoted.
You are a bigmouth.
You think your way is the right way, and when given feedback, get defensive and learn nothing.
You take advantage of people too much.
You couldn't mourn your beloved dog for more than a day without getting another one. This is representative of how you treat anything. You are shallow and value image over real relationships.
You have no insight into your dog's bad behaviour, your children's or your own.
You can't reflect on your behaviour, and rationalize your drawbacks without any thought to the negative impact on those around you.


You have, somehow, great people as friends, and I liked being a part of it. But you are too much for me, and I cannot be the hypocrite now that I see the way things are. I hope you don't lose too much before you change. I hope you can be better, for your loved ones' sake.

ADDENDUM:
Why I am trying not to engage:

Her: 

Awesome just got back.into downhill

U any good

Me:

Nah, just average, but I love it!

I am going to meet up with afriend I met snorkeling in FLORIDA. She goes to Idaho every year and loves it.

Her:

You met someone

A guy

Me:

(no response)

???!@#$%